- Tell your loved one that she/ he don’t deserve to be treated badly and that no one deserves to be abused. This abuse is not their fault.
- Let your loved one know that there are ways to increase his/her safety, that she/he has options, and that, together, you can get the help that is needed. Compass Center for Women and Families can assist with the safety planning and with understanding options for dealing with the abusive situation.
- Tell this person what you have noticed that concerns you. Tell them that you believe (or know) she/he is being hurt or controlled. Tell him/her that you are concerned for his/her safety.
- Avoid focusing on the abuser. Keep this person out of the conversation as much as possible. Remember -your loved one has strong feelings for this person. Focus on your loved one, his/her safety, and your love and concern for him/her.
- Encourage him/her to call the Compass Center for Women and Families 24-hour hotline to speak with an advocate or to come in for an appointment.
- As the loved one of someone who is being abused you can call Compass Center for Women and Families hotline and receive support, information and abuse education.
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